31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
If you want to be forgiven, you must forgive. Do not hold onto past faults or hurts from others because it will become a weight. Learn to forgive and forget because that is what God has done for us.